Spanking Good Round of Applause

Everyone, please "meet" Dave the Rave! Since he doesn't (yet) have a blog of his very own, I really hope you guys and gals will completely overwhelm him with feedback, questions and comments in the comments section below! He will definitely be thrilled and stimulated by that act of kindness! I hope you enjoy learning about him as much I've enjoyed getting to know him behind the scenes (via email).

Tiggs Talks with Dave the Rave

Dave: I am a middle-aged man (45), live on the East Coast of the USA and work with numbers all day. I live to have fun by being around people with like interests and take whatever life brings my way.

I dislike negative-thinking people and the negative energy they convey.

I am big into sports and am very athletic.

Tiggs: You prefer to be spanked rather than do the spanking, and you prefer receiving spankings from women… why? (Please describe in as much detail as possible).

Dave: With my high-stress job, getting my bare tushy spanked by a woman allows someone else to have total control of me. The experience is both liberating and arousing. While no real sex ever takes place, getting my penis "charged" is a plus! Plus, the feeling of total submission is a rush, as well.

Tiggs: How often do you get to live out your spanking fantasies and urges?

Dave: At times, on the weekends, while there have been times where I have been spanked every couple of days. Sometimes I will think of them as I self-stimulate myself, which adds to the "pleasure" and climax.

Tiggs: Are you single, married, divorced, or what?

Dave: I am single, never married, and will more than likely stay that way.

Tiggs: Describe (in detail) your favorite spanking setting, including possible role play, clothing worn, toys involved, etc.

Dave: My favorite spanking setting is where I am with a woman who takes the dominant role from a subtle, almost motherly, role to one of extreme authority where I have no choice but to submit. Sometimes playing songs that fit the moment help to increase the pleasure aspect. I am almost always wearing a G-string or in my full birthday suit, while she is most often in full attire. If she is wearing fitness gear, it excites me even more!

The toys have been penis restraints, bullet vibrators, penis rings and prostate stimulators. One time a woman made me wear a harness and locked a fake penis over mine and I was made to please her. While it was not "real" sex, I became hard inside the fake penis and "came".

Tiggs: What implement (or type of implement) do you most like to be spanked with? Why?

Dave: The most-used 'implement' is simply an open hand - nothing beats a firm bare hand to bare hiney spanking! A paddle, thick ruler, ping pong paddle and short leather strap are also at the ready if a woman brings it along. A riding crop would be fun, but so far nobody has one. (Darn!)

Tiggs: Please talk about your least favorite(s) spanking toys and explain why they are not your favorites…

Dave: My least favorite spanking toys are thick paddles, thick yardsticks (seamstress) and anything else that inflicts excessive pain.

Tiggs: Have you ever spanked a woman? (Describe the situation)… Did you enjoy it? Did she?

Dave: I have spanked a woman, but that was a long time ago and I didn't like it. She wasn't too thrilled either, since I don't know my own strength.

I gave her a few slaps on her bare tush while over my lap in my jeans. She smiled, but I could tell it hurt her more than she let on. After that, it was a turn-off for me. I told her I didn't want to harm her and she understood. I patted her warmed buns and we laughed as she pulled her jeans back up over her cute thong.

Tiggs: Do you prefer just to be spanked or are there other elements tied in (being dominated, humiliated, restrained physically or emotionally, etc.)?

Dave: While I prefer a 'natural' spanking - totally bare and no restraints - being handcuffed or otherwise secured so that there is "no escape" would be a turn-on. Having my manhood secured into a ("wee-wee corset"/penis restraint) is also something that heightens the experience.

Tiggs: Have you ever been whipped? Please describe… or describe a sexual fantasy about whipping.

Dave: I did fantasize about it, but would never "want" to get whipped. A riding crop is about the closest thing I would go for, and that might be on my "wish list" this Christmas! (LOL)
Tiggs: What type of woman turns you on the most (for spanking fantasies, that is)?

Dave: A woman who takes full control is the ultimate fantasy for me. Being subjected to any and all forms of punishment with NO escape would be worth the fantasy, though that will NEVER happen in reality. Total domination and complete surrender are what I would truly want to experience.

Tiggs: Do you prefer to be spanked by women whom you already know or by complete strangers? Why?

Dave: While I would much rather be spanked by a woman I already know, there are times when a complete stranger has done the punishing. It made me feel afraid of her, shamed that she would do so, but it was also arousing at times.

Tiggs: How long have you been interested in being spanked?

Dave: Since my initiation into it when I was in my 20's. There was very little spanking until a few years ago and all has since picked up.

Tiggs: Please describe your first consensual spanking experience in detail…

Dave: My first consensual spanking was when a friend playfully told me I was a naughty boy and needed a good spanking. I stripped for her, she then asked me to lay across her lap, where she then spanked my bare tushy several times. It was all in fun and no harm was done - a "slight sting". Looking back, I wish she would have been more forceful, but we had fun with it.
Tiggs: Do you have a collection of spanking toys available for women to use on you?

Dave: No. I take along a plastic shower brush and ping pong paddle. They usually have "the rest" - hairbrush, ruler, paddle or anything else they can dream up.
Tiggs: What rules do you have whenever you are consensually spanked?

Dave: If it is just the two of us, as long as she does not overdo it, all is fine. No "safe words" are ever needed, since she can usually tell when enough is enough. If I am at a party and there are more women there, as long as no heckling and name calling is done, so be it!

Tiggs: What about sex toys? Do any of your spankings also involve the use of sex toys such as dongs or vibrators or nipple clamps?

Dave: The only time sex toys are used during a spanking is if I am strapped into a penis restraint or a vibrating penis ring is strapped on and turned on. My manhood is stimulated and my "cheeks" try to squeeze together, so a spanking when that is happening is QUITE arousing!
Tiggs: What about restraint? Any wild times been had with you physically restrained? What is it about that feeling that turns you on (or off) the most?

Dave: The only time I have had anything other than my penis restrained was when a friend simply tied me to a chair with ribbons. I very easily could have broken them, but the "feeling" of being controlled by her was enough to let me experience "bondage". However, if someone were to use chains, blindfolds, ball gags and other forms of extreme bondage, forget it! Being fully restrained and totally helpless would be arousing, but that has not happened yet.

Tiggs: How did you find our little corner of cyberia? (the consensual spanking blogs)?

Dave: I bounced around cyberia and went to various links until I came across the sites.

Tiggs: Why not start your own blog?

Dave: I don't know if I would have the time or be able to put the effort into it to make it worthwhile.

Tiggs: What attracts you most to a particular blog and keeps you coming back?

Dave: Seeing how people make others submit to their whims, the various methods used and how the end result is often that regardless how much pain and humiliation is done, the 'victim" yearns for more. THAT is a turn-on!

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Thanks for being so forthcoming, Dave, and please, everyone else, really do inquire further into Dave's lifetime of spanking good experiences! It will make him very happy and could lead to even more spanking good times for him!